This book may be one that a person
would be tempted to pass over due to the subject matter. I would
recommend that one not be so quick to dismiss this as just
another book on counseling and psychology. It is a book filled
with hope and encouragement, whether you have experienced
discouragement because of certain situations in life, or you
know someone who has or is battling severe depression.
In the introduction, Dr. Welch
writes that the path ahead is a partnership between the “whys”
and the “how-tos.” The “why” questions are religious in nature
and are about God and the basic questions of life. To ignore
them and focus on the “how” questions might lead to temporary
mental relief, but your heart will still be famished.
As he writes about the technical
diagnosis of depression as often being a chemical imbalance he
urges the reader to not buy into a medical explanation too
quickly. The reason being that if a depressed person assumes
their problem is fundamentally medical they will not see any
usefulness in looking at their relationships or basic beliefs
about God.
He also warns against just
assuming that depression is only rooted in spiritual causes. He
points out that strong faith can coexist with emotional highs,
lows and everything in between. “It is a myth that faith is
always smiling.”
In part one of the book he writes
that depression is suffering. He discusses some of the causes,
but he always keeps us coming back to the Scriptures and God.
“But all suffering is intended to train us to fix our eyes on
the true God. Therefore, depression, regardless of the causes,
is a time to answer the deepest and most important of all
questions: Whom will I trust? Whom will I worship?” He goes on
to introduce the reader to God who is sovereign, powerful and
good. The exhortation is to cry out to the Lord, to battle with
the enemy Satan, and to persevere in the fight.
In part two, “Listening to
Depression,” he discusses in more detail the reasons for
depression, but I think a key chapter is thirteen, “The Heart of
Depression.” Here he writes about what comes out of a person,
such as autonomy, indulging his/her desires, and wanting more,
none of which changes one’s depression. You will also be
ministered to, and challenged by the other chapters on fear,
anger, dashed hopes, failure and shame, guilt and legalism, and
death.
“Other Help and Advise” is the
third section of the book and deals with medical treatments, and
how families and friends can help those depressed. There are
good practical suggestions throughout this section, and
expectations to learn and be used by God.
Part four is entitled “Hope and
Joy: Thinking God’s Thoughts.” Dr. Welch ends the book with
great encouragement as he writes, “While our culture elevates
riches and health, hope is one of the most coveted spiritual
possessions. You get it by asking for it and by practicing it.
You practice it by remembering and meditating on God’s
story….Joy is not the opposite of suffering…Instead, joy can
actually be a companion to suffering.” In the end get the
message of Jesus’ words “I love you.”
Welch has written with
compassion, gentleness, and has kept a Christ-centered focus on
how to handle depression. He has saturated the book with
Scripture, and therefore it is recommended for your reading.
R. Aeschliman Resource
Coordinator, CE&P
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