When I was originally asked by the publisher to read this manuscript, the timing was not great for me. It was a thick manuscript and I was facing several other deadlines, but I followed through and had no regrets. On this particular topic, it may be most inclusive thing I have read on the subject, and what a timely one at that. The family!

The family is not doing all that well in our society today. This is especially critical because increasing numbers of studies are revealing that more than anything else children want a good relationship with their parents and want to be part of a family support system that enables them to develop a right worldview.

If you are a pastor or a counselor, or a Christian wanting to understand what the Bible says about family and marriage, you will want to read this book and keep it as a reference. I recommend it as the best single source on the topic. It is clear, comprehensive, and consistent with my understanding of Scripture.

It is exhaustive on the topic of the family and seeks to look at the whole of Scripture as the foundation. I would recommend it as a guide and source for sermon material, Sunday school class study, or small group use, as well as personal reading and study. There is both a personal and group study guide at the end of the book that helps make it teachable.

The one thing I would like to have seen expanded, though chapter four deals with marriage as sacrament, marriage as a contract, and marriage as a covenant, is a fuller explanation and application of the covenantal aspect of marriage. God clearly describes marriage as a covenant. There is a good précis on pages 85-91, even a section on the implication of a covenant view of marriage. I would have made that a more prominent thesis throughout the book, emphasizing that marriage is first about God and his plan and will. That does not distract, however, from the book’s value and use due to the completeness of the overall content. Kostenberger does not dodge the tough issues such as divorce, homosexuality, abortion, and sexual reproduction.

Along with the suggested audiences above, I have thought what a challenging book to give a couple planning for marriage or early into their marriage. The Psalmist said that, “In his light we see light,” and that is what is needed in today’s family and marriage. The book has good solid Scripture, sound theology, as well as many practical ideas throughout.

You will appreciate this book.

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