At the last PCA General Assembly I
was amazed when some 150 people came to a seminar I led on small
group ministry. (I had prepared for 25 thinking I might have
10.) Those who came represented a variety of situations. Some
wanted to know how to start a small group ministry. Others
wanted tips for enhancing already thriving ministries.
Small group ministry is not
new—or even relatively new. I remember how many Christians
viewed small groups with suspicion in the ’60s and ’70s. Today,
if you don’t have such a ministry you’re out of step. It’s
become a major component in discipleship efforts.
First century believers met
regularly in homes. These were relatively small groups. The
Methodists, who got their name because they had a method, met
each week in groups. It was part of the method. One question
they asked was, “how is it with your soul?” The Sunday school
has, for the most part, been a small group ministry.
What churches presently call
small groups are in place in part because our living situations
have become so transient and relations so scattered that the
need for connectedness is often acute. Small groups, in some
measure, help plug that gap.
Last May, as the group I led was
winding down for the summer, I asked them to talk about their
reaction to our previous ten months of meetings. One couple said
that this was the primary means by which they had gotten to know
some people in the congregation. That’s not unusual.
But small group ministry is a
program. Like any program it should be viewed as a means to an
end. If you don’t have a clear idea what you want a program to
accomplish its value ought to be seriously questioned. To put it
another way: don’t have a small group ministry because you think
everyone else has one.
My purpose in small group
ministry is threefold. I obtained this outline from Lynn Coleman
a number of years ago:
- Bible study: Actually I
would broaden it to say “worship”. Each group needs to base
their discussions on the Scripture. Further, I want each
group at Covenant Church, where I work, to have a
significant time of prayer. That is Covenant Church at
prayer.
- The opportunity to tell your
story: Everybody has a story to tell. Often those most
reluctant to begin are ones who talk the longest. Over time
those stories are seen in the light of the biblical message.
- Task: At Covenant we do much
of our mercy ministry through our groups. We’ve often
encouraged Lyman Coleman’s empty chair—praying that someone
will fill that chair in the group.
If you want to re-examine the
purpose of your group ministry the three-legged stool is a good
plan to start.
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