Editor’s Note
Christian Education and Publications is beginning to fulfill an
earlier assignment by the General Assembly to develop a program
of ministry around senior citizens. They are the fastest growing
segment of our population. For example, in 2000 there were
70,000 centenarians in the U.S. One year later the number jumped
to 100,000 and by 2050 it is projected to reach 834,000. Getting
older can be a difficult experience in a person’s life, though I
am convinced your ministry can thrive and grow as you age. David
is even seen in Psalm 71 asking the Lord to continue his
ministry in his older age: ”Even to old age and gray hairs, O
God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another
generation, your power to all those to come.” I relate to that
prayer because it expresses so clearly my own prayers and
desires for the next generation to know the Lord and my desire
to help them.
Recently, knowing that CE&P is
involved in offering some training around the theme of senior
citizens with the able leadership of Dr. George Fuller, several
people have asked questions about our program and materials.
They have also asked us about retirement. Is it a biblical
concept?
In the book review section we
comment on Paul Tripp’s book, Lost in the Middle: Midlife and
the Grace of God. In the book he makes this observation: “the
Bible does not talk about midlife crisis, but the Bible tells us
everything we need to know about midlife crisis.” I would say
the same thing about retirement.
Retirement is one of the topics
addressed in our resource manual materials,
Serving
and Challenging Seniors, edited by George C. Fuller. To
answer the question in this section of Equip for Ministry, I
will use one of the pages out of those materials, written by
Richard L. Bucko, a deacon at the Cherry Hill PCA Church in
Cherry Hill, New Jersey.
“Whatever you do, work at it with
all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you
know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a
reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving” (Colossians
3:23-24).
Making the transition to the next
phase of life is often a difficult and stressful experience.
What will we do with our time? Do we want to go out while we are
at the top of our game? Will the financial resources be
adequate? One important part of the retirement decision is what
you will do with your time if you’re not at a job. Having an
answer to these questions in advance will make the retirement
decision easier and less stressful.
Some research indicates that the
ideal “retirement” arrangement involves doing what you did
before, just less of it. Some of us may have that option in our
past employment, but most will find that the former workplace
will have to be left behind.
For those who “cut the cord” to
the former work environment, transition efforts to prepare for
the next phase of life can be comparable to having a second job.
A second job that may well, and perhaps should, last over a
year. It takes thoughtful and realistic planning as well as
serious introspection. As I approached retirement from my
profession of 32 years, I listened carefully to the stories of
those I knew, and of others who had already made the decision.
It became clear that successful retirees were the ones who knew
what they would do with their time prior to making the
retirement announcement and certainly prior to the retirement
date.
As members of the human family,
as well as the Christian faith, we have been given needs that
must be filled for us to be happy and content. There are the
basic human needs of air, water and food, but there are the
“higher order” needs that must also be met for us to achieve
true happiness and contentment. These needs must be considered
as we plan our life ahead. Human interaction, self-worth and
meaning in our activity are some of the things we should
consider in selecting our retirement options.
This raises the thoughtful
question: Does a Christian ever retire? As a Christian the
answer is, of course, no, but as a worker the answer is usually
yes. So then, what are the options for the Christian retiree?
The Options
I. Interest
If we have an interest or curiosity in the world around us it is
difficult to be bored. Develop a plan to explore and develop
interests that can be an individual quest—climb that
mountain—and then the next. Or it can be as part of a group such
as a hiking club, boat building or work as a museum docent. The
possibilities are only limited by our imaginations and
curiosity. Many of us will have the opportunity to be engaged
more in Bible study groups and to read the bible daily.
II. Other Work
Second, find a part-time or full-time job. Is there a position
open at the local library, can you drive a school bus, teach a
class, manage a store? If we are willing to consider part
time—at a less lofty position than we once had—the number of
possibilities may be surprising. The trade-off for that
full-time position you left may be greater flexibility (fish or
play golf on a Tuesday), less stress and more time to explore
the other options.
III. Make a Difference
The third option involves making a difference. Another way of
expressing this is that we all gain a stronger sense of self and
of belonging when we can feel our activity has meaning. Making
the world a better place, one act at a time. This includes
volunteering at your church in a form of ministry such as work
on church property, visiting nursing homes, or driving the
elderly to the grocery store. It also includes volunteering for
a committee in your town (Shade Tree Commission or Zoning
Board), running for the school board or helping to beautify
public gardens ( and your own). We can certainly make an impact
on those higher order needs when we feel that we have made a
difference in the lives of others.
Combining two or all three of the
option categories is certainly possible and can lead to the
attainment of those higher-order needs that result in
satisfaction and contentment. None of us can order our lives to
perfectly meet our needs for fulfillment and contentment. But
planning in an organized and purposeful manner can certainly
make a difference. The three option categories stated above can
provide a core for purposeful planning that can be put on paper
to begin a daily and weekly calendar. You may learn that it is
the beginning of a bad day when you get up and say, “What am I
going to do today?”
Richard L. Bucko, Ed. D.
Principal (retired), Moorestown School District, New Jersey
Adjunct Faculty, Fairleigh Dickinson University, New Jersey
Deacon, Covenant Presbyterian Church, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
You can obtain further
information on CE&P’s program, purchase the materials, and host
a seminar in your church and presbytery on the senior citizen
topic by contacting our office or Dr. George C. Fuller at
fullergj@worldnet.att.net or 129 Farmington Road, Cherry
Hill, NJ 08034-2513.
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