Thirty-eight million seniors (65+) live in
the United States, making up thirteen percent of the total
population. What percentage of this senior population resides in
“group quarters,” including nursing homes? Answer: about five
percent. The huge majority of the senior population is capable
of useful service.
The present PCA membership, including
children, is 342,041 (plus an unknown number in churches that do
not report their data). If the total membership of our churches
is like that of the nation as a whole, the PCA has among its
members 45,000 seniors. This number will most likely more than
double in the next forty years, as the total senior population
is projected to do in our country. Currently, relatively few in
our denomination are in nursing homes, only five percent or
2,250. Some PCA churches, like Crossroads Presbyterian Church in
Woodbridge, Virginia, near Quantico Marine Base, have few
seniors; and some, like Covenant Presbyterian Church in Sun City
West, Arizona, have only seniors. However, we seniors do indeed
tend to be everywhere. What a resource for serving Jesus!
Most books and articles about senior
ministry focus on serving seniors and call us to help in meeting
their needs. While this call is important and clear biblical
imperatives call us to that ministry, most seniors do not have
the pressing issues and disabilities that require mercy
ministry. Few of our seniors are in nursing homes or severely
disabled; and all of them, except perhaps those with advanced
dementia, are capable of serving Jesus. What a great challenge
and opportunity! All seniors must be challenged to honor the
Lord in their lives and by their ministry. Some, perhaps many,
indeed do so.
Meet Chuck Backlin. A graduate of West
Point, he served as an officer in Vietnam. Now retired, Chuck
turned sixty-nine this spring. On Tuesday mornings, he
volunteers at the national headquarters of the Multiple
Sclerosis Association doing data entry for the clients to whom
he ships helpful devices for their everyday needs. On Wednesday
mornings, he paints the interior of his church, Covenant PCA in
Cherry Hill, New Jersey, working his way around the fellowship
hall, down the hallways, and through the classrooms. On Thursday
mornings, he volunteers at the American Cancer Society,
developing corporate and organizational support. Chuck’s an
usher, a “money counter,” and works at VBS. As a deacon, he
serves on the equipment committee and is involved in the
ministry of mercy. Chuck summarized, “I’ve never been bored;
there’s plenty to do, to know about.”
You’ve probably already met Caleb. When he
was forty years old, he was sent by Moses as a spy into the
Promised Land. When his advice was rejected, the door was closed
for forty years. At eighty-five years of age, now serving under
Joshua, he asked for permission to drive the Anakites from the
“hill country.” He had another mountain to conquer.
Consider other biblical servants, who
honored their Lord even into old age: Abram (75), Moses (80),
Aaron (83), Joshua (“very old”), Ahijah (“old”), Eli (“old”),
Simeon, Anna (84), Lois, Paul, and John. Barzillai (80) served
the Lord by not being an unnecessary burden to others. Mary was
faithful in later years by letting someone else (John) take care
of her.
The biblical challenge to seniors to serve
is clear. “Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O
God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your
might to all who are to come” (Psalm 71:18 NIV). “They will
still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green”
(Psalm 92:14 NIV). “…Who satisfies you with good so that your
youth is renewed like the eagle’s” (Psalm 103:1-5). “I will sing
to the Lord as long as I live; I will sing praise to my God
while I have being” (Psalm 104:33). “One generation shall
commend your works to another…” (Psalm 145:4-7). “I will praise
the Lord all my life; I will sing praise to my God as long as I
live” (Psalm 146:2 NIV).
To neglect challenging seniors to serve the
Lord is clearly unbiblical. It is also active ageism, prejudice
against anyone based on their age alone. Ageism against seniors
is everywhere, in movies, on TV, and even among the boomers who
are rapidly becoming seniors. People of advancing years may
indeed come to see themselves as “disposable, unimportant,” not
unlike disposable diapers or material thrown into a garbage
disposal. Ageism is most painful when the seniors themselves
share in it. “I am useless. I have nothing to do. Nobody needs
me.” These are not Christian statements, perhaps especially not
for seniors. Challenge seniors to serve the Lord so that neither
you nor they are guilty of ageism.
Motivation is the key to your
commitment to challenging seniors and to their accepting any
challenge. In Christian calling and service, the heart is the
issue. Jesus gives us life, and we live for others. The fixed
point at which those things happen is the cross. The basic
motivation is not found in the needs of others, however serious
or gut-wrenching they may be. The motivation is in the
Christian, senior or younger. John wrote, “We love because he
first loved us... For he who does not love his brother whom he
has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen... Whoever loves
God must also love his brother” (I John 4:19-21).
Initiative may have to overcome inertia. If
a senior’s history shows no record of serving others, becoming a
senior will not change his heart. The Lord needs to do that.
Other seniors must understand they do not retire from Christian
service. Moving from “serving” through “retirement” to “being
served” is along a road on no map in the Bible. A car is easier
to steer when it is moving, especially if the motor (heart) is
running properly. Starting friction is indeed greater than
sliding friction.
Mobilization flows out of
motivation, and creativity and dreaming are important. “What
could happen, if everything worked out well?”
All dreams do not come to fulfillment. A
.300 batting average is very good; but if you never come to bat,
0 for 0, your average is .000. To make a dream become reality
you need to gather facts and information, which feed creativity.
Explore needs. Discover what younger generations and seniors
need and want, survey the total Christian Education program,
look for gaps, and consider community opportunities. Now ask,
“What do seniors have to offer?” Do a survey not with a form but
through visits, writing down reflections after each visit.
Once you have information, use a simple
formula: needs + resources = opportunity. Match needs with
resources and where they meet is opportunity. You may find that
seniors in your church are indeed serving in many quiet
ministries among themselves and with others, but creativity may
produce multiplied benefits by initiating and enriching their
ministry.
Ministry grows out of motivation and
mobilization. The goal is to have seniors serving through word
and deed, being who they are, representing Jesus, being an
example. The possibilities are many, and a few examples
accompany this article.
Recognize that you work with volunteers.
Karen Morton in CEP’s Serving and Challenging Seniors
suggests several steps in cultivating volunteers. First
invite volunteers (personal invitations are best), and then
interview them and ask about their experience and
interests. Inform them by telling them what is expected
and what help they will have. Interact with volunteers by
seeking feedback and offering reassurance. Invest in
them; continuing support is important. Finally, interpret
them by seeking information about their experience. Morton
concludes, “Ministry by seniors to seniors or to others in the
local congregation or community is a win-win. Needs are met and
seniors are given opportunities to contribute and to feel
useful.”
When seniors accept your challenge to serve
the Lord, benefits multiply. Consider the results.